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Writer's pictureEric Tangumonkem, Ph.D.

Sex alone will not build a successful marriage



Marriage is like a three-legged stool! Every successful marriage has three legs that it stands on, and it is impossible to build a strong and enduring marriage without these three legs. Most marriage experts have identified three aspects of marriage that MUST be present and functioning well for any successful marriage. It is impossible to have an excellent marriage without these three components of the marriage working well and in synergy. All three aspects feed into each other, and the more you strengthen one, the stronger the other two become, and the deeper the level of commitment and the more enjoyable the marriage will be. There is no middle ground and no way to thrive in your marriage if any of these legs are broken or not functioning well. Couples that have figured out how to make these three legs work well have the best marriages. They will tell you all that must be done to ensure that all three legs operate at their full capacity and potential, vital if you want a happy, fulfilling, and lasting marriage. When you trace all marital problems, the root cause will be either sex, money, or communication. The exchanges of harsh words, marital unfaithfulness, resentment, anger, bitterness, irreconcilable differences, and eventual divorce can always be traced to one of these three essential and crucial components of marriage: sex, money, and communication. There are already tons of books on sex, money, and communication. This book will not cover these subjects in great detail because the focus will be on how a seemingly unrelated topic can enhance the crucial building blocks of every successful marriage. If you have never read any book about sex in marriage, there are so many books out there that will be of great help to you. There are excellent books dealing with how to communicate as well, and these are strongly recommended. Lastly, managing money in your home is crucial, and many authors have come up with excellent resources to that effect. Money alone will not build a successful marriage. If that were possible, the super-rich would have the most blissful and long-lasting marriages, but that is not the case. Sex on its own will not do it either, and effective communication will not guarantee a strong and enduring marriage. What you need is all three components working in synergy. The good news is that we can teach you about one catalyst that will cause sex, money, and communication to work well in any marriage. It will not only cause these aspects to work well, but it will also enhance each one of them and, in doing so, will enhance the marriage too. Do you already know how to communicate effectively with your husband or wife, have great sex, and possess wealth? This book is going to enhance your marriage, strengthen it, and divorce-proof it. There is always room for growth and improvement. Your marriage may be in constant turmoil because there is no sex, your communication is horrible, and/or you are poor and broke, but do not lose hope. This book will show you the way forward, and if you follow the recommendations that we make, your marriage will turn around. It does not matter how long you’ve been married or the quality of your marriage, following this book will enhance, deepen, and improve your relationship. If you were told that there was a pill on the market with the potential of guaranteeing a happy and lasting marriage, wouldn’t you buy it? Not only will this pill divorce-proof your marriage, but it will keep your love for one another strong, exciting, and thrilling. In short, you will not get tired of remaining in a monogamous relationship with one partner for life. The choice to talk about sex, money, and communication is deliberate, and it is not an attempt to lose sight of what we are trying to accomplish. If you want to know this secret pill and how much it costs, we will not keep you waiting any longer. You may be wondering how something as insignificant as exercise can have such a significant impact on any marriage’s health. The heart of this book is providing an answer to these questions and shedding much-needed light on this crucial issue. Many people pay lip service to the fact that their marriage is their top priority, but their actions, money, time, and resources are disproportionately distributed. How can a couple with twenty-four hours a day find it difficult or even impossible to create time to exercise together as a couple? Talk is cheap, but talk that is followed by action is what makes a difference. The potential in being able to act on your convictions is huge and must be encouraged. This book is an action book, and we are challenging you to apply the knowledge presented here. It will work best if used in conjunction with the companion workbook, A 90 Day Challenge for Husbands and Wives to Exercise Together: A Step by Step Guide on How to Get This Done. If it does not deliver, you can then discredit what we are saying. But I guarantee you that no marriage will remain the same if the husband and wife decide to exercise regularly and eat right. They will become healthier, vibrant, and richer, and their marriage will blossom. We will be sharing our personal journey with you and hope that it will inspire, motivate, and equip you to establish a secure and robust marriage. 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Published by Status is online Dr. Eric Tangumonkem, Ph.D. President IEM APPROACH| Author| Inspirational Speaker| Leadership Coach Published • 7m 207 articles Money alone will not build a successful marriage. If that were possible, the super-rich would have the most blissful and long-lasting marriages, but that is not the case. Sex on its own will not do it either, and effective communication will not guarantee a strong and enduring marriage. What you need is all three components working in synergy. The good news is that we can teach you about one catalyst that will cause sex, money, and communication to work well in any marriage. It will not only cause these aspects to work well, but it will also enhance each one of them and, in doing so, will enhance the marriage too. Order your resources: Enhance your Marriage: The surprising benefits of exercising as husband and w... https://lnkd.in/dsry5ucP... via @amazon A 90 Day Challenge for Husbands and Wives to Exercise Together: A Step by Ste... https://lnkd.in/dpfuKrYh... via @amazon hashtag#iemapproach,hashtag#drtangumonkem,hashtag#inspiration,hashtag#ditawa, hashtag#cawadi hashtag#productivity,hashtag#thanksgiving,hashtag#happiness, hashtag#leadership,hashtag#health,hashtag#exercise hashtag#fitness,hashtag#wellness,hashtag#holistic,hashtag#faith, hashtag#failure, hashtag#shame, hashtag#regret,hashtag#denial, hashtag#responsibility, hashtag#marriage, hashtag#dirvorce

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